Much has happened since my last update. All the volunteers have left Vinh. I'm in Hue with Quynh, Hung, Bao and their cousin Thao. We leave tomorrow morning for Saigon where we will spend the day. I'm beginning to reflect on my experience this year and I have to say it was very different from last year.
The last few weeks my students finally were feeling more comfortable with me so I was actually able to go out with some of them. We met up with a student from Hue last year who is studying in Vinh to become a nun for the most amazing Pho I've ever had and I got to know my student An a lot more. He stood out from all my other students and I'm really glad that I at least got to get a bit more closer with him if not many other students. He took us out for coffee, Ho Chi Minh Square, Bun Bo Hue and the night before I left for Hue I got to meet his 11 month old son! He really is an interesting person. He has been married for two years, living in Vinh. His main source of income is working on the roads in the city...really back breaking work especially under the incredible hot sun. On the weekends he teaches 7th grade English.
My morning class also took me out for dinner and karaoke which was quite an experience to say the least. One big difference I've noticed this year is the focus on beer. Last year I had a very uncomfortable weekend when I visited Phong Nha because I refused to get drunk off warm beer with my student's co-workers. There was constant pressure from my students (some high school students or younger, others future priests). I have a feeling I offended a lot of them by refusing to constantly down full mugs of beer :/ Overall both dinner and karaoke were a good time, I only feel bad that my students wouldn't let me help pay the bill because it was probably very expensive for them.
Last week went pretty slowly. On a few occasions we gathered all the classes together and taught them a song.
My last day in Vinh was very hectic. We went out the night before to say goodbye to all the volunteers then had to leave Cau Ram at 6 in the morning for a celebratory mass for the new bishop. It was madness! Around 50,000 people attended. I was leading everyone though a massive crowd of Viets with a nun behind me telling me where to push my way through. One teacher got her camera stolen. Someone cut it straight from the wristband.